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He’s just too into you

May 7, 2011

Have you ever dated anyone who was just too into you?  They are enthused and clearly overly zealous about you.  Overly complimentary and pushy way before the timing might be mutual?  If you’ve had this experience or perhaps have even been the “chaser” then here’s a thought you may want to hold onto for the future.

The “chaser/chasee” phenomena is a simple one.  As long as someone energetically chases someone, then the other person is energetically the “chasee.”  And because the “chasee” spends so much time avoiding being chased, he can’t spend anytime being the “chaser” in return.  And in relationships, it’s give and take, right?   So without the back and forth the “chasee” is literally pushed out and probably disgusted by what appears to be neediness and desperation.  We all like attention but we all have our limits  for how much we can take at any given time.

Relax and take your time.

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